I know the title of this blog may throw some people for a loop.
*gasp!* You mean people decide to quit homeschooling?
Why yes, yes they do. And they do so for a variety of reasons, all of which are based on the particular needs of both the family and the child. Some people choose to go public around high school, mainly because they want the “brick and mortar” diploma. Some put them in during middle school for the sports and music programs. While still others choose to transition because their child has a special need and the public school may offer a program suited for this need. Whatever the reason, the decision is solely up to each family. Does that make them quitters?
Yes, but can I dare to say they are smart quitters?
They are quitting for the very reason some of us began homeschooling in the first place -- to provide their child with every opportunity to learn and excel. When they can’t meet a vital part of their child’s education, the obvious answer is to find someone who will! And if you can’t find that resource within your circle of influence, and you go to the public school realm, then you’re a smart quitter.
I know the word "quitter" can have a negative connotation. In fact, if you are one of those parents who are in the throes of this inner personal debate, you know this can be a very negative word. You don’t want to be called a quitter! You don’t want your homeschool community to look at you with scorn and make you feel guilty about your decision. But can I challenge that thinking? If you fully believe your child’s needs can only be met by someone else right now, for any reason…why does it matter? When you started on this path, did you care what the public school parents would say? Maybe you did, but you’ve gotten over it, right? Same concept applies here. If it feels right for your family in this phase of life, you need to follow your convictions and do it.
Making the decision to homeschool is hard, but making the decision to go back into the public school can be even more difficult than you could ever imagine. If you are in that decision making process right now, please be encouraged that only YOU know what is best for your family and your child. Do what you think is best and don’t allow guilt to accompany it. Just by having the “quitter” debate in your head, you are doing a fantastic job of making sure your child’s needs are met. Don’t let anyone make you feel any differently.
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