Compassionate Child-Rearing

compassionate_child_rearingRobert W. Firestone, Ph.D. – This eye-opening book, Compassionate Child Rearing, introduces the theory and underlying dynamics involved in family relationships. The author helps explain how even well-intentioned parents unwittingly injure their children’s self-esteem and psychological functioning based on their own childhood defenses and self-destructive tendencies.

By recognizing their own early life experiences and the internalized defenses they developed as a result, parents can better understand the effects they have on the emotional state of their children. The lesson of the text is that children deserve the same rights, respect and consideration as any fully grown human being. To raise their children in a healthy environment, where they are seen and heard as independent individuals, parents must come to understand the ways in which they hurt their children and the events from their own past that helped motivate their behavior, even on an unconscious level. This book helps parents to thoroughly comprehend their unique experiences and identify the impact they are having on their children, while learning to be a more nurturing and loving parent.

Reprinted with permission from www.psychalive.org

 

Eating in Season: Autumn Harvest

Knowing which foods are in season throughout the year is something my grandmother could recite off the top of her head. In her day, it wasn't possible to have tomatoes or pineapple in winter, or pumpkins in the spring. (Unless of course it was canned.)

But in our modern day and age, foods are in season all year round at the grocery store. We get our tomatoes from Mexico, our bananas from the tropics—anything we have a craving for, it's there waiting for us. We just have to hop in the car. With that kind of convenience, we've seen a huge decline in the tradition of eating harvest foods here in America, especially in fall and winter months.

When was the last time you prepared a recipe with leeks or brussel sprouts? Have you ever tasted celery root or endive?

Some food for thought:
Not only are fall harvest foods delicious and flavorful (no really, they are!), but they're some of the most nutritious foods in Mother Earth's arsenal. They're packed with tons of vitamins most children are lacking nowadays. They're usually much cheaper than out-of-season foods, since we can get them from local farms here in the USA—they don't have to be shipped all the way across the world. Which also reduces our carbon footprint!

The moment I decided to start getting my nutrients and vitamins from real FOOD rather than a pill or a breakfast bar, I began doing research on cooking homemade meals around the foods that were in season in fall and winter. I found a treasure trove of vegetables and fruits I'd never tried before. Some I hadn't even heard of!

Each week I picked a fall harvest food, like turnips or arugula or cabbage or beets, then I'd search online for recipes that centered around those ingredients. Once I found a recipe that fit with my family's tastes, I'd make a meal plan around it. 9 times out of 10, my family loved the new recipes. Slowly but surely, we became accustomed to eating fall and winter foods in the fall and winter, and spring and summer foods in the—gasp!—spring and summer.

Eating what is in season has completely changed how I view my grocery shopping and meal planning. Now we aren't missing out on the vitamins and nutrients we used to when we would eat the same things all year round. Our diets are more well-rounded and diverse, and we feel healthier and happier as a whole.

For those of you who would like to start eating what's in season, I've made a chart of all the fruits and vegetables that are harvested in the fall. Next month I will make a chart for winter foods. 

My challenge to you is this:
Try just ONE recipe with a different fall food each week until Christmas. Try something you've never tried before. Don't be afraid to try beets or brussel sprouts or ginger or tomatillos. Just dive in! Then let us know some of your favorite Autumn Harvest recipes. We'd love to hear about them!

Educational value:
Don't forget to teach your kids about the new fall foods you're introducing to the table. Let them know which vitamins each food is famous for. Getting kids involved with cooking almost always gets them more excited about eating, especially if you have a picky eater in the family!

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To find out what's fresh and local near you, visit Sustainable Table for more info. 

   

This Week's Giveaway: $75 Pinhole Press Gift Card

We have a fantastic giveaway for our readers this week. We're giveaway away five $75 gift certificates to PinholePress.com for custom holiday cards!

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I just created my own holiday cards through PinholePress.com, and I have to say, it was the best custom holiday card experience I've ever had. I've created photo cards through Kodak.com, Apple.com, and Costco.com. Pinhole Press's ease-of-use is the best by far.

Their website is clean, fast, and super easy to navigate. You simply select the card template you like, upload your own photos, arrange them on the card, and you're done. You can even crop or resize the photo if you want to get super fancy, but even those options are ridiculously easy. 

I chose to personalize the Joy Card below, which is a folded card with space for four photographs. I used photographs of my family in the snow. I loved the clean lines and the white border. The design really went well with our photographs and made them look amazing. 

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There are dozens of different card styles to choose from. Just pick your favorite design and go from there. 

In fact, I'm such a big fan of my experience with Pinhole Press that I'm giving away five $75 gift certificates you can use toward your holiday card purchase this year! It's super easy to enter. Simply head on over to Facebook and "like" both Plugged In Parents and Pinhole Press. Then leave a comment on our Plugged In Parents Facebook wall telling us what you love most about the holiday season. Contest ends this Friday, November 4th, 2012. US entries only. Good luck!

Direct link to the Facebook contest: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Plugged-In-Parents/36391335271

I'll be sure to post photos of my holiday cards as soon as they come in on Facebook so you all can see how they look. I'm excited to get them!

   

A Nut-tastic Recipe Contest

Have we got a contest for you! Just in time for the holidays, we're giving away a $25 gift certificate to Whitleys Peanut Factory.

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How do you win? It's simple! On our Facebook page, post your favorite recipe that features nuts or nut butter as a comment on our Recipe Contest wall post. We'll pick one recipe to be featured here on PluggedInParents.com for all to enjoy. (We'll even recreate it in our test kitchen and take a photo.) The person with the winning recipe gets the prize!

We will contact you via Facebook if you win. Winners must have a US mailing address.

So dig out your recipe boxes and enter today. The contest closes this friday at midnight, October 14th, 2011. The winner will be announced the following monday.

Get cracking -- anything on the Whitleys Peanut Factory website would make a great holiday gift!

   

Last Minute Find: Natural Mosquito Repellent

Screen_shot_2011-09-08_at_9.00.57_AMMosquitoes are still lurking around in many places at this time of the year, so I wanted to share my recent find: Fairy Tales Bug Bandit, a non-toxic mosquito repellent that is DEET and pesticide-free and smells like a dream. 

It is infused with lemon eucalyptus and soybean oil, as well as natural rosemary oil, citronella, lemongrass, peppermint, cedar bark, and cinnamon that deter those pesky, blood-thirsty mosquitoes while keeping skin moisturized.

Want to learn more?  Go to: www.fairytaleshaircare.com.

   

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